Some years I decide to set resolutions, some years I can’t seem to come up with any that I feel really connected to and then sometimes I think of them 2-3 days into the year. Well, 2020 is the latter. The more I thought about it, the more I realized that there are a few things I would like to focus on….be resolute about.

So here they are, my 2020 resolutions.

1. Listening- I’m a talker. This is not new information to anyone who knows me nor is it new information to myself. That being said, I know that I have a tendency to throw little quips or anecdotes into conversations while other people of talking. Usually they laugh or say something back and things continue on. Upon some self reflection lately I’ve realized how disruptive this can be. And rude. Of course it doesn’t come from a place of malice when I do it and so no one really calls me on it. But if I’ve noticed it then I’m sure others have too and it’s time that I make an effort to be better at really listening to people, rather than waiting for a moment where I can throw out a comment.
Talk less, Listen more.

2. Let go- I’m a fighter and as I’ve stated in past posts, I stick around in a dynamic much longer than I should. I hold on to the potential that I see in someone, hoping that things will change before it’s too late. Then it’s always too late and I’m much more hurt than I would have been had I let go sooner. So I’m really going to try letting go of relationships that I know, deep down, aren’t good for me. Regardless of how hard it will be and not knowing how things would end up.
Pick me, not Potential.

3. Be More Sustainable- I started this a little last year but want to be more serious about it going into this year. There’s so much waste in my life that’s totally unnecessary!! So much trash. So many single use things. It’s obviously a good decision for the environment but I also think it’s a good decision for me! What do I need all that trash for anyway?? In my efforts for sustainability I found 2 companies that can help me. The first, MightyNest. It’s a subscription that sends you sustainable products once a month and if you like it, you can buy more from their website. And it’s only $11! If you want $7 off your first box, check it out and use my referral code: INVITE7. It’s a great way to see what’s out there without making a big financial commitment upfront.  The other site I found is Grove Collaborative. This site is all about environmentally friendly products with flexible reoccurring shipments each month at really great prices. They even curate products for you once you place your first order. Not happy with your purchases? You can cancel at any time. Nothing to lose! If it intrigues you too, I have a referral code for you to get a free gift! Use This!
Less Plastic is more Pleasant!

4. Give back- This one is pretty simple. Be more generous! Ideally I would like to give to those in need in financial ways but….rent. So in times when I can’t quite swing that, I want to start giving back with my time. Time is money after all. So I’m going to start researching volunteer opportunities, because as poor as I feel most of the time, I am truly blessed and fortunate to have the life I have. And I should never take it for granted.
Time to give what I get.

5. Jazz things up- This one is even more simple! There are so many little holes in this city that have live music on any given evening. It’s ridiculous that I rarely go out and see any of them! Sometimes I forget how much I love Jazz and live Jazz in particular. It’s time to start taking full advantage of the music at my doorstep.
Fine tune my soul.

And that’s them! My 2020 resolutions. I feel pretty good about them. They will require effort but they aren’t unattainable. As all good resolutions should be.

Happy New Year